I Love Being A Mom

Of every role that I have done and been doing, being a mom I guess is at the top of the list. It gives me a reason to smile that at the end of the day that I have a home to go to where my husband and my baby are eagerly waiting for me.

I can never imagine a happier life than this.

True, the harsh realities of life like paying bills and fees for the baby’s diapers and vaccination set in like a sting every month. But as what the author of a recent article I’ve read, said that she can’t think of anything better to spend her money on than her child.

I’m aware that the above statement may trigger adverse reactions from single people, saying that I am a smug and just have no choice.

But really, had I known that motherhood will be the only thing that can give me pure joy, I could have done it earlier.

When my baby looks at me, wants me and knows that I am his mother, nothing in the world matters anymore. Even if there are work issues to deal with or financial affairs needing to be settled.

I realized that everything I had aspired in life, nothing can be at par with motherhood. It gives me a different feeling of high but at the same time making me tamer.

I learned how to be more patient and understanding when my baby had his bouts with colic when he was just 2 weeks old. I understood how vulnerable my son can be when he’s hurting, reason he’s crying for a few hours at a time. That virtue of patience extended up to the people outside the home. I became more enduring and tolerant of other’s whims and differences.

I discovered that whatever you are in your career or your life, being a mom is a humbling experience. You can’t be domineering or act like a boss. It starts you off to love and take care of somebody without questions or conditions. That’s why they say that parenting is loving your child unconditionally. No ifs, no buts.

But when your baby flashes at you his sweet toothless smile upon seeing you when you get home, loving unconditionally doesn’t feel like work at all. Even if you are dead tired from working and surging through the city’s heavy traffic, all you want to do to see and hug your two great loves.

Being a mom is part of the pie that I am willing to get as much of a slice I can get. And having that piece is what I enjoy doing the most.

At the end of the day, I am just a mommy to my beautiful son – and I am proud of it.

Extra Cash When You Need It

I don’t know anybody who doesn’t want extra cash, do you? Well, maybe enough money is enough, not too much nor too less of it. Otherwise, that’s when problems arise. I know a lot of people who juggle money for a lot of bills and necessary expenses such as food and rent. It really takes a lot on someone to balance and regulate their cash flow especially when there's too much going on.

It becomes harder when someone can’t pay their creditors. I once saw an article discussing failure of paying credit card bills. The author gave various tips on settling their obligations with the credit card companies. She also strongly advised against declaring bankruptcy as this step is detrimental to one’s credit score and its effect will go on for a long time.

Thus, as the article further stated, it is essential to pay your bills on time, especially those that impose penalties and charges for late payment. But sometimes we run out of cash just the time when we need it most. Just to avoid late payment fees, you can avail yourself a payday loan. Or say, for example, you need cash right now to put you through until next payday, then a payday loan will be highly useful for you. This is a short-term loan that can patch your temporary cash need. Facilities like these can make juggling your bills and money obligations much easier.

Do you need a cash advance loan?

During these times of high inflation, sometimes it causes disruptions or even depletion of your bank account. Inasmuch as you want to normalize your cash flow or even spend just the amount that you can afford, there are times that you’ll discover an empty wallet. There are situations that unexpectedly come up and require instant cash such car repair or allowance until the next payday.

If you don’t need a really hefty amount but just the right quantity, you can obtain a cash advance loan. Such financial or lending companies offer quick loans that suit your needs. What’s more, these companies have a more relaxed set of qualifications with regards to your credit status, thus assuring you fast approval. So until waiting for the subsequent payday or just even making sure that you have enough pocket money for that dream vacation, you may avail yourself of such precious help.

The Law of the Garbage Truck

A friend sent this email and thought I’d share it. I learned a lot from it. I'll remember this story everytime someone dumps their garbage at me!

"The Law of The Garbage Truck"

I hopped in a taxi and we took off for the airport. We were driving in the right lane when suddenly a black car jumped out of a parking space right in front of us. My taxi driver slammed on his brakes, skidded, and missed the other car by just inches! The driver of the other car whipped his head around and started yelling at us. My taxi driver just smiled and waved at the guy. And I mean, he was really friendly. So I asked, "Why did you just do that? This guy almost ruined your car and sent us to the hospital!"

This is when my taxi driver taught me what I now call, "The Law of the Garbage Truck." He explained that many people are like garbage trucks. They run around full of garbage, full of frustration, full of anger and full of disappointment. As their garbage piles up, they need a place to dump it and sometimes they'll dump it on you. Don't take it personally. Just smile, wave, wish them well and move on. Don't take their garbage and spread it to other people at work, at home, or on the streets.

The bottom line is that successful people do not let garbage trucks take over their day. Life's too short to wake up in the morning with regrets, so "Love the people who treat you right. Pray for the ones who don't."

Want To Be More Organized?

I am one person who likes to organize things at all times! Maybe it was because my mom was also such a neat freak that I became one too. I want everything to be in order, spic and span. I would get cranky when I see a dirty floor or used glasses in the bedroom or unwashed plates in the sink.

At regular intervals I would retrieve everything that needs cleaning and organizing. I would buy boxes and baskets so I can identify items that are still being used and those that can be kept away. We have moved houses thrice already and each time it gives me another chance to do spring cleaning.

Some of things that need constant arranging and rearranging for me are finance and legal documents, such as utility bills, credit card bills, copies of birth and marriage certificates, tax and Social Security papers, warranty proofs and the like. These papers just keep on piling and piling up each month and it seems that I am running out of place to keep them!

That’s why home storage solutions serve an important and necessary help for people like me. They offer some of the sturdiest pieces of storage boxes that are acid-free, moisture-resistant and 100% recyclable. They are more lightweight than the traditional materials such as cardboard and wood. You can store important documents, old clothes, toys, tools – anything and everything under the sun. These plastic corrugated boxes prove to be durable and would effectively protect the items stored inside as these are rodent- and insect-proof.

With a good storage tool one can efficiently start organizing and easily put things in order. I’m might have to get one of those for myself.